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haus409

11-28-2005, 02:42 AM

squad51

11-28-2005, 05:10 AM

I would go with the Mcdonalds coupons........

NJladyGlock21

11-28-2005, 06:18 AM

Ladies...I need some ideas. I've been dating this girl only since Halloween. Things are going well and it strongly looks like we're going to be together through Christmas. Great, that's the easy part. The hard part is that since my divorce I have only casually dated, and have not had to venture back into gift giving. And...it's not like we've been together for several months, so jewelry or other "intimate" gifts don't seem appropriate, but at the same time this girl is a notch above the other girls I've been dating.

I figured this would be an interesting and useful thread for everyone...so let's hear some ideas, please!
This idea might be jumping ahead a little far depending on how serious of a relationship it has become.
I'd suggest taking some time off and inviting her to spend a weekend with you. It can just be at home. Assuming you two date around conflicting schedules like most LEO's do, time spent together is always a great gift.
Think of some things you know she likes to do or places she likes to go but just doesn't have time. Try and incorporate some of that into the weekend.
Great way to get to know each other a little more. Also, a lot of us need some serious down time during or following the holidays!
Good luck! ;)

Buttercup

11-28-2005, 09:26 AM

As Ladyglock said, much depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Gift certificates for a spa day are always nice, then you could take her to a really nice romantic dinner afterward. :)

StephWhit

11-28-2005, 09:33 AM

Smelly stuff is always good..Candles/Bath and Body Lotions and that kinda crap...

Massage gift certificates rock too! (hint hint to all my loyal fans) :D

willowdared

11-28-2005, 10:01 AM

yup - can't go wrong with spa gift certificate

pkagel

11-28-2005, 10:11 AM

Or you could make yourself, yes, you, not ordered in, a nice romantic meal at your place. Seems more personal than the other things mentioned and could win a lot of points.

gpd810mertie

11-28-2005, 05:06 PM

If you want more ideas, you have to tell us more about her. Like what are her interests/hobbies? Is she a practical gal or more of a romantic?

I have lots of great ideas...but yes...we need to know just a little bit more about her. Likes/dislikes, hobbies?...is she high maintenence? or not ;) LOL. Is she an indoor girl or an outdoor girl. Or a little of both :p

You can never go wrong with a gift certificate to her favorite store...or better yet, your local mall. I love those. I'm a yankee candle nut, I'm addicted to those things...so if I get one of those from my husband...I always make sure I make him a happy man LMAO.

gotthblues

11-28-2005, 05:16 PM

GIVE HER A KEY TO YOUR APPARTMENT,

not really,

i like the idea of the spa and dinner, i did that with my wife and she loved it, JUST MAKE SURE THE PERSON AT THE SPA is a female, many females dont feel comfortable with a strange guy touching them, my wife freeked at first then found out that a female would be doing the spa thing, not some sword.

cst.sb

11-28-2005, 05:31 PM

I would go with the Mcdonalds coupons........

That cracked me up!!! The imp inside me was thinking that exact same thing!!!!

I would give a GC for a spa day, or tickets for anything that the two of you will have to dress up for, wine tasting, a play, opera, ballet, etc..

It all depends on how much you like her. Or you can go buy you a nice bathrobe and pjs to wear at your place on those sleep over party nights.

Just becareful not to over do it. If you over do it, she'll think you like her too much and she'll dump ya.

Chiller

11-28-2005, 05:58 PM

Gift certificates for a spa day are always nice, then you could take her to a really nice romantic dinner afterward. :)

F-er stole my answer :mad: :mad:

Buy her a car

Chiller

11-28-2005, 05:59 PM

Smelly stuff is always good..Candles/Bath and Body Lotions and that kinda crap...

Massage gift certificates rock too! (hint hint to all my loyal fans) :D

How about a personal massage by me :D

hellokitty

11-28-2005, 06:05 PM

My latest (and favorite) way to find gifts these days is by going to Barnes & Noble website, or Amazon, or any large store like this that has a *good* search feature.

All you have to do at this point (literally) is type in the word of (thing/actor/actress/tv show/music group), etc...and instead of just doing a normal search, play around with it. Say she likes Tom Cruise. Instead of looking for film, look up BOOKS. You'd be amazed at some of the unique things you'll find!!! If the item is more broad, like "dolphins" or "camaro", the more unique items you'll find. You'll see what I mean. I'm telling you, it's really fun! I've been asked a LOT lately "where/how in the world did you find this?"

Lastly, you can try to do this simply by looking up "humorous books" or you know, where the subject is already spelled out for you? Best of all, you can knock out everyone in your list in one internet shopping session. Most places give you free shipping for orders over a certain amount. It's the best.

**editing to note: I have to go with the majority on the spa thing. I got that once as a gift and it was my very first massage, and I *loved* it. You could always go with her, too, and treat yourself as well. But if so, make it one of those 'hot springs' kind of bath spas, not some hair salon in the mall.

The Colonel(44)

11-28-2005, 06:47 PM

Southern women like this,at least in my household,New hair style, coloring if needed,pedicure,manicure then pick out a restaurant with amvence (atmosphere) and dancing! or a broadway show or play! :)

gotthblues

11-28-2005, 07:34 PM

New hair style, coloring if needed,pedicure,manicure )

ummm, new girlfriend, and the above, sorry, i d stay away from that one, i can just see her reaction now,,, :eek:

The Colonel(44)

11-28-2005, 07:51 PM

ummm, new girlfriend, and the above, sorry, i d stay away from that one, i can just see her reaction now,,, :eek:Never Know till you ask :rolleyes:

gotthblues

11-28-2005, 07:59 PM

Never Know till you ask :rolleyes:
hahahahhaah,

yea,,, "you know, i like you, but, your hair looks like a cocker spaniel and your finger and toe nails look like a grizzly bear, but i really like you, so here's a coupon",,, :D i can see the reaction now,,,, :)

The Colonel(44)

11-28-2005, 08:07 PM

hahahahhaah,

yea,,, "you know, i like you, but, your hair looks like a cocker spaniel and your finger and toe nails look like a grizzly bear, but i really like you, so here's a coupon",,, :D i can see the reaction now,,,, :)Its the sutle approach,(All women like to be pampherd) the hair coloring can be a added extra bonus allow the hairdresser to discuss this added gift that you so lovingly provided or allow her to purchase beauty products sold at the salon! ;)

gotthblues

11-28-2005, 08:13 PM

Its the sutle approach,(All women like to be pampherd) the hair coloring can be a added extra bonus allow the hairdresser to discuss this added gift that you so lovingly provided or allow her to purchase beauty products sold at the salon! ;)
i see what youre saying, but i just couldnt resist.

The Colonel(44)

11-28-2005, 08:19 PM

i see what youre saying, but i just couldnt resist.neither could I :p

gotthblues

11-28-2005, 08:39 PM

neither could I :p
but would you really get that for a new girl, only been dating for a month, it justmay be the types i dated, but man, i would think she'd ****e a brick and go nutz on ya.

Buttercup

11-28-2005, 09:27 PM

hahahahhaah,

yea,,, "you know, i like you, but, your hair looks like a cocker spaniel and your finger and toe nails look like a grizzly bear, but i really like you, so here's a coupon",,, :D i can see the reaction now,,,, :)

Hahahahahaha :D

I agree with you, gotthblues, you don't want to give a gift that says "I like you, but I think you need a change." :D

Java King

11-28-2005, 09:30 PM

Hahahahahaha :D

I agree with you, gotthblues, you don't want to give a gift that says "I like you, but I think you need a change." :D

Would it be wrong to give out a free health club gift membership then? :o

Buttercup

11-28-2005, 09:32 PM

Would it be wrong to give out a free health club gift membership then? :o

Not necessarily.....it depends on the relationship, and if you know that's something that she'd like to have. I don't think I'd give that in a new relationship, though, it might send the wrong message. Again, though, if it's something that she wants then it would be a perfect gift. ;)

Java King

11-28-2005, 09:35 PM

Not necessarily.....it depends on the relationship, and if you know that's something that she'd like to have. I don't think I'd give that in a new relationship, though, it might send the wrong message. Again, though, if it's something that she wants then it would be a perfect gift. ;)

You could always use this exit excuse if she got offended:
"I got the membership for you because it has a hot tub" ;)

Buttercup

11-28-2005, 09:39 PM

You could always use this exit excuse if she got offended:
"I got the membership for you because it has a hot tub" ;)

You could certainly try. :D

Let me know when you're out of the hospital. :D :D

MEA0306

11-28-2005, 09:57 PM

Ladies...I need some ideas. I've been dating this girl only since Halloween. Things are going well and it strongly looks like we're going to be together through Christmas. Great, that's the easy part. The hard part is that since my divorce I have only casually dated, and have not had to venture back into gift giving. And...it's not like we've been together for several months, so jewelry or other "intimate" gifts don't seem appropriate, but at the same time this girl is a notch above the other girls I've been dating.

I figured this would be an interesting and useful thread for everyone...so let's hear some ideas, please!

Here is what I consider the "ultimate" in regards to a gift from a guy. It isn't the cost or type of gift that is important. What makes a gift really special is that the person took the time to learn who I am and what I like and finds just the right gift for me. Something unique that expresses that they cherish me and I am precious to them.

You do that and you will win her heart.

1sgkelly

11-29-2005, 07:39 AM

Give her Joy.

Jean Patou
The Man, The Company, The Fragrances
Jean Patou fragrances are special for good reason. Here is some background that will help you understand why Jean Patou fragrances are worth every penny of their price!

Jean Patou was born in Normandy, France, in 1880. Arriving in Paris before World War I, he started with two small dressmaking shops. Then, in 1912, he founded Maison Parry. After serving in the French Army during the Great War, Patou opened his first couture salon on Rue St. Florentin, in 1918.

Jean Patou's Joy, "The World's Most Expensive Perfume." Each bottle is filled and finished by hand.
During the 1920's Patou created fantastic lines of high-end sportswear (offering sportswear to women was, in itself, revolutionary!), knitwear, and relaxed fashions that were easy and comfortable to wear. He is credited with popularizing the cardigan and inventing both the tennis skirt and the knit bathing suit (quite sexy in it's day!) His work as been described as "effortless and sensual minimalism and understatement." In 1927 Patou introduced the first tanning lotion, Huile de Chald

hellokitty

11-29-2005, 10:08 AM

I think gift cost should be considered here as well, though. Something too expensive after only dating a month can be seen as a little extreme? Me, I'd worry if the guy was maybe a little irresponsible with his finances buying me anything over $100 after only dating a month, particularly if he is the one who normally spends on dates.

Again, that's just me. I'm very concerned with how people handle their money. I'm a saver. My brother (who makes close to three times as much as I'll be making) is a spender...and has huge debt he's trying to now pay down cause of this. I've never spent more than $50 on someone's 'first' gift.

SwissMizz

11-29-2005, 01:36 PM

Hmmm.

Another gift idea (and I agree fully with hellokitty that it should be somewhat inexpensive) would be a getaway for the night. If she's an outdoorsy girl, take her snowboarding. If she's an indoor romantic, get some rose petals, candles and soft music and cook her a wonderful dinner. Definately pamper her! She will know she's one step above the others.

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 02:46 PM

Hahahahahaha :D

I agree with you, gotthblues, you don't want to give a gift that says "I like you, but I think you need a change." :D
see, my thoughts are proven correct.

Da Po-po

11-29-2005, 04:06 PM

I think you should go to the day spa with her! Get a massage, get a cucumber mask, get a pedicure. A guy can get his feet done and still be macho, right???

On a similar note... my fiance and I made a verbal agreement not to spend more than $150 bucks on each other for Christmas. Now, she has been talking for quite a while about a cappucino machine. I did my homework and found what I think is the best bang for my buck on one, but it runs $200. The question, then, is this: Ladies, do you think I should just go on and spend a little more, or stick to the $150 limit? Being on the verge of bankruptcy isn't the issue at all. Just our little agreement is all. Opinions are appreciated.

Kee-un :cool:

irishlad2nv

11-29-2005, 04:16 PM

Is this poor lost soul sap still even dating this girl? I mean he has not posted anymore since the original...guess he jumped the gun?

toby101

11-29-2005, 04:37 PM

The question, then, is this: Ladies, do you think I should just go on and spend a little more, or stick to the $150 limit? Being on the verge of bankruptcy isn't the issue at all. Just our little agreement is all. Opinions are appreciated.

I would, its something you can both use. It's not like its a one sided present.

And yes I know you said only ladies, but I thought I would respond.

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 05:16 PM

And yes I know you said only ladies, but I thought I would respond.

uhh, close enuff,,,, :D :eek:

e-man

11-29-2005, 05:32 PM

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 05:55 PM

I saw Steph respond and for some unknown reason I thought of the new "Pocket Rocket" DOnt ask me why but its inexpensive and it really is you thinking about HER... :eek:

P.S.- Spa package is the one to get.ANd a nice smelly candle thing,
If she likes body lotions{the real stuff not Chillers idea} get her the Bath and Body Works- Rice flower and shea butter scent. IT IS THE ULTIMATE. Take it from me.........
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
i could say so many things right now,,,,,,,,,*bitting tongue*

Chiller

11-29-2005, 06:39 PM

I saw Steph respond and for some unknown reason I thought of the new "Pocket Rocket" DOnt ask me why but its inexpensive and it really is you thinking about HER... :eek:

P.S.- Spa package is the one to get.ANd a nice smelly candle thing,
If she likes body lotions{the real stuff not Chillers idea} get her the Bath and Body Works- Rice flower and shea butter scent. IT IS THE ULTIMATE. Take it from me.........

hmmmm...since my special lotion is not a good idea( although she likes it),I guess eatable undies is no-no also

Pocket Rocket is a good one..I'll second that and who knows she may let u try it also :eek: :eek: :D

willowdared

11-29-2005, 07:07 PM

I would also vote for a yummy scarf/gloves in her favorite color - if you live where it gets cold.

To me, cooking for someone is more a date then a gift. The potential for disaster is kinda high too. If you know she has a favorite perfume or candle scent then yes - otherwise no! Another mine field you don't wanna tip-toe thru.

The spa thing is something that most women don't treat themselves to, so it says she deserves to be pampered. Unless she is very shy, or uncomfortable with the idea of a stranger touching her - she should love it, and thinkk you are damn skippy for getting it for her!

Don't forget to kiss her under the mistletoe! :)

toby101

11-29-2005, 07:26 PM

uhh, close enuff,,,, :D :eek:

Gotthblues, I was just starting to like you again. But looks like I get to send you a true present coming from my dog.

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 07:31 PM

Gotthblues, I was just starting to like you again. But looks like I get to send you a true present coming from my dog.
:D sorry, you set yourself up for that one, *with all the smart arzes in here*

oh by the way, go go juice *gas* is down to $1.80 ;)

Buttercup

11-29-2005, 07:43 PM

:D sorry, you set yourself up for that one, *with all the smart arzes in here*

oh by the way, go go juice *gas* is down to $1.80 ;)

:eek: :eek:
Ok, where is that other thread.....?

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 07:46 PM

it died :mad: :D

Buttercup

11-29-2005, 07:53 PM

it died :mad: :D

Or did it? :D

gotthblues

11-29-2005, 07:58 PM

Or did it? :D
i just saw that,,,

guess budda does exist, reincarnation at its best.

ninjamom6

11-29-2005, 10:05 PM

The spa thing is something that most women don't treat themselves to, so it says she deserves to be pampered. Unless she is very shy, or uncomfortable with the idea of a stranger touching her - she should love it, and thinkk you are damn skippy for getting it for her!

If she is shy about having a strange man (or woman) touch her, then give her the spa treatment yourself. ;) Go to Bath & Body Works and ask a salesperson what to get and how to use it (or just use your imagination). :p

DarkSmoke

11-29-2005, 10:17 PM

You aslo don't want to spend TOO much. Cuz if the relationship goes down the crapper, Knock on wood it doesnt, you don't want to be kicking yourself for dropping soo much dough on the girl that got away. I say the spa might be okay. Good Luck!

Wisconsin Migra

11-29-2005, 10:22 PM

Since your relationship is still in its infancy, give her a copy of that homemade video of you and your ex making love (probably tucked away in some boxes somewhere) and tell her it is to help her understand your lovemaking techniques and what she can expect. Then get back to us and let us know how it worked out.

The Colonel(44)

11-30-2005, 11:07 AM

Smelly stuff is always good..Candles/Bath and Body Lotions and that kinda crap...

Massage gift certificates rock too! (hint hint to all my loyal fans) :DWhat about a Watery gift certificate from (Overtons) ;)

Buttercup

12-03-2005, 09:29 AM

BaseballBabe

12-05-2005, 01:23 PM

I think you should take her to a baseball game as a present...

Oops that is my choice. I agree with everyone the day spa would be nice but so would a weekend in a cabin up in the moutains just the two of you. I think I shall stop now before I get carried away. :o