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Andrew Hawkes
04-12-2009, 09:18 AM
Female Suspects: They Can Hurt You!
Andrew G. Hawkes


We have all done it, felt way to relaxed when dealing with a female suspect. We’re big, bad, tough cops right? Whether we are male or female, we often tend to let our guard down when dealing with a female. We are the ones in uniform; that makes us ten feet tall and bulletproof, Yes? Especially you male officers, a woman isn’t going to be able to hurt you right?

Well that’s what I thought. Let me take you back to a dark winter night on a desolate stretch of country road. I had pulled over an intoxicated driver, a lone female driver. I was all of 185 pounds, in shape, and I had an obnoxious 240 pound drunk country girl on my hands. The time came to take her into custody and you know how it goes down hill quick? Well the next thing I know is I’m getting jumped by this intoxicated woman. The first thoughts that ran through my mind were “I can’t believe this is happening, I don’t want to hurt her, she’s a woman”.

While I was preoccupied about “not hurting her” she commences to strike me a few times in the head and by the time I realized that I was indeed in a real fight, we were already rolling around in the bar ditch.

An intense 92 second fight incurred, complete with me screaming for back up on the radio. After I was able to get her pinned down, I still couldn’t get her hands free from under her 240 pound frame. I finally managed to get them free and was able to handcuff her.

It was after I rolled her over and sat her up on her rear end that I saw it. There it was, lying on the ground where only seconds before her hands were in the same location: A .25 caliber Beretta handgun, chambered, cocked with nothing but the safety on that had fallen out of her clothing.

I came within seconds of potentially losing my life because I had hesitated to use my training on a female suspect. Luckily, I survived and have never taken another female suspect’s potential to hurt me for granted ever again.

Always remember a criminal that wants to hurt you can, no matter what gender they are. We are trained as police officer’s to prepare for this, but until it actually does happen, the light switch in your head might not come on. So remember your training, always. Whether you are a young, new officer on the street or a seasoned, street hardened cop, don’t think a suspect can’t hurt you because of their gender. I look back now, despite all of the jokes from my buddies about getting my rear “whooped” by a female, and I laugh about it too, but deep down I am glad that I am alive.

Stay safe out there and go home at the end of you shift.
Andrew G. Hawkes
www.highwaydruginterdiction.com

Smurfette_76
04-12-2009, 01:16 PM
I'm more wary with a female than a male. Male suspects also underestimate a female Officer, btw...so do male Officers. Women will hurt you. Quick.

PhilipCal
04-13-2009, 04:04 AM
Great post, Andrew. Great reminder.

Mstangfk
04-13-2009, 05:38 AM
Lesson: dont pull over fat chicks.









ok im kidding OP is right on the money, i had one the other night and she wasnt that big.

Code Seven
04-18-2009, 07:15 PM
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slamdunc
04-19-2009, 02:41 PM
No place for complacency, ever!

deputy x 2
04-19-2009, 02:57 PM
People in wheelchairs can hurt you.

Nikk
04-19-2009, 03:17 PM
Young people can hurt you too. I was kicked in the face by a 16 year old who suddenly went ballistic. He was a football player (square head, no neck, you know the type? A mutant, gorilla sized kid!) But you know the headline (had there been one) would have been phrased as mean adult cop "brutality" on a child.

And yes, women can hurt you.

strong4305
04-19-2009, 07:33 PM
great post, and lesson learned

Nightshift va
04-19-2009, 08:05 PM
One thing I have learned in 15years as a street cop. You have to be cautious with females. Most male cops are gentlemen, it's part of our make up, especially in the first three years with regard to dealing with females. The first time I had to fight a woman in the city I worked for she threw a beer bottle through a boyfriends window right in front of me so I grabbed her arm for a arm to cuff her and she did what comes natural and lunged to bite me and It caught me off guard so the adrenaline and suprise caused me to use more strength and I flipped her 180 degrees head over heels onto a rail road tie. She wasn't seriously hurt but it was close. I tell all the recruits the same thing when dealing with a resistant female, spray them right away before you lock up with them, it truely is for her safety as well as yours. Ive also had to fight three that i recall were cracked up and desperate and it took several guys, I couldn't do it myself and that was back when I was a physical animal lifting in the gym. Use your tools, when they freak. And watch out for biting.

anubis312
04-30-2009, 03:15 PM
Hell has no Fury like a woman's wrath.

11b101abn
05-10-2009, 02:08 AM
I learned this the hard way, when a nutty b**ch stabbed me when I arrested her abusing husband.

Females get no special treatment in a UoF encounter, none. They tote one just like the males.